Coaching for Single Women Who Want Love
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Do you cringe when you think of dating? But, at the same time, you would really love to have a partner, a man to share your beautiful life with, someone that you can feel safe to give your heart to.
You’ve tried so many things. You let your friend fix you up with her cousin, you tried online dating, and on numerous nights, you wind up crying yourself to sleep. It’s been exhausting, hasn’t it?
For God’s sake, shouldn’t it be easier? You are attractive, smart, and cool.
All your friends like you. And, some so many men are looking for love too. So, what’s the issue?
What do you tell yourself
Perhaps you are too successful to be able to find a man that will not be threatened by your achievements? Or, all men are players? Maybe you’ve heard that all good men are taken. Oh, yes! Stats are stacked against you. Right!?
There is a lot of information about these topics. As a matter of fact, you can use this information to find excuses for not pursuing what you want. We all create stories based on our limiting beliefs. These stories prevent us from achieving our goals and desires.
Ultimately what matters is your desire. You want love, and you deserve to be loved for all you have to offer. You deserve someone who gets you, someone who can even see all your shortcomings, and not only accept them, but actually love them.
Could coaching for single women help you?
Do you see yourself in any of these:
What can coaching for single women do for you
I want you to know that you can change this and be happy in love. You can feel confident and empowered. Most importantly, you can feel worthy of the love you crave. Just like you succeeded in other attempts, you can succeed in this pursuit.
Another great benefit is that you can enjoy the journey of getting there. You don’t have to do it alone. Just as you need teachers and mentors for other attempts in your life, you can be happy in love if you get the right guidance.
I know it's hard to trust and open yourself up when you've tried everything and nothing worked. I've been there myself. You may not be able to see yourself in a happy relationship right now, but I’m here to cheer you on and help you with guidance.
I can help you feel good about yourself, become confident, and ready to receive the love you crave from the right partner.
How working with me changes my clients
I've helped many women overcome fear, frustration, and confusion. I guide my clients through the transformation from feeling lonely, hopeless, and confused to feeling empowered and frisky. I teach them skills that empower them to know how to react in different situations when it comes to dating and love. My clients wind up having multiple suitors when they start dating.
Besides feeling competent in the relationships my clients say that they feel calm and happy. When I’m able to make them understand how amazing they are for at least a millisecond, my clients start blossoming and getting multiple suitors’ invitations.
After more than twelve years of clinical work as a marriage and family therapist, advanced training in psychology of relationships, and decades of personal life experience, I decided to offer coaching for single women who want love. Deep down, we all need to feel loved and appreciated for all that we are.
See what one of my clients say about my work
These skills will help you if you are on a quest for love and a committed relationship
To help you get the fastest results, I create a specialized curriculum just for you based on the questionnaire that you complete and feedback that you give me. I also prescribe homework that will help you solidify the skills we are working on.
I describe some of the most essential skills below. Click on each to find out more about them.
UNDERSTAND YOURSELF AND YOUR LIMITING BELIEFS
Knowing yourself is essential for success in relationships. One of the aspects to understand is your limiting beliefs about men, relationships, life, and your own role.
Another aspect of knowing yourself is knowing your values, boundaries, and likes. Sometimes, we women struggle to understand ourselves because of lifelong efforts to please other people in our lives.
Coaching for single women focuses on helping you understand yourself. I carefully designed the questionnaire that you can complete before we start working together so it can help us with clarity.
I also ask just the right questions, to help you explore and gain more insight about yourself.
CREATE NEW EMPOWERING BELIEFS ABOUT LOVE
Once you get to understand yourself and acknowledge your limiting beliefs that may be obstructing your success in love, we can work on helping you change them and replace them with more empowering beliefs.
Those limiting beliefs perpetuate potentially gloomy story in your head. With this kind of mindset, you will be forced into a self-fulfilling prophecy. Your behaviors will be geared towards making the story in your head come true. You don't want a gloomy ending.
When you sign up for coaching for single women, I utilize special techniques to help you create the narative that leads to hope and growth. Doing this enables you to see yourself and your prospects for love in a more positive light.
This kind of mindset leads to behaviors that tend to lead to success when it comes to dating. You can have a happy ending.
LEARN TO RECOGNIZE THE RIGHT PARTNER FOR YOU
You may find a great looking guy who meets all your criteria from your checklist, just to realize that you are not happy with him down the road.
When you sign up for coaching for single women, I will help you figure out better ways to choose a partner. Making a checklist may be OK if you have the right items on the list.
Besides, many of us have a tendency to be attracted to wrong guys, or the guys that are not emotionally available to love us the way we need to be loved.
It's paradoxical. Isn't it? You crave a deep emotional connection, but you are attracted to guys who can't give it to you. We've all been there.
Coaching for single women is designed to help you work through these mindset blocks.
UNDERSTAND MEN AND THEIR COMMUNICATION STYLE
Understanding men will help you feel empowered. Not necessarily that you will start taking advantage of them, but instead you will understand how much you mean to the right guy.
You will also know when he is not the right fit for you, and so on.
My coaching for single women will help you become more attuned to yourself and to the others. I teach you skills that can help you be present and attuned instead of anxious and worried if he will like you or not.
This work will help you tune into your empathy skills that are essential for a happy relationship. This is not to say that you don't have empathy for people. But, sometimes when we are anxious and worried if someone will like us for instance, we may miss the mark. We may misunderstand the other person.
So, instead of reading some superficial advice about how men think, you can learn the skills to understand each man's soul and have a feel where he comes from.
COMMUNICATION SKILLS FOR DEEP EMOTIONAL BOND
Communication is essential for a happy relationship. But, when we think of communication, we often think we need to express ourselves, be open, and that's it. The other party needs to take it or leave it.
Often, women struggle to express themselves with men. If you are like the majority of women, you may struggle to say what's on your mind. Then, when you get fed up, you may wind up spewing something that you were not aware was in you just to see a freaked out guy on the opposite side of the table.
In my coaching for single women, you will learn how to be in touch with your emotions and how to communicate both likes and dislikes in the ways that guys and you will feel empowered. Thus you can build an emotional bond with the guys you are dating.
When my clients utilize these skills, they rave about how easy it becomes when they are dating or when they are already in committed relationships.
UNCOVER YOUR EMOTIONAL INTELIGENCE
This is the cherry on top. When you uncover your emotional intelligence, you will be able to feel confident and just simply know instead of wonder.
Instead of overanalyzing and overthinking, you can be attuned to your emotions and get valuable information. You don't have to feel confused in love anymore.
What happened to your emotional intelligence? Don't worry! You still have it, it's just covered with the anxiety. You see, we are raised to think, analyze, and do instead of using our emotions. It felt safer to avoid being in touch with our feelings, and we developed excellent analytical skills.
Coaching for single women addresses this tendency and helps you uncover emotional intelligence and develop the intuition that's essential for good relationships.
After all, who wants to keep reading shallow relationship advice that rarely applies to your particular situation.
There can be other skills. An individualized approach is essential for success, and we focus on what you need to work on for your specific situation.
My clients feel so happy that for the first few months they expect something horrible to happen
Perhaps you can imagine how your life would be, but it may be hard to believe it deep down in your being. Imagine how it would be if you could feel safe to give your heart entirely to a partner that will cherish you and appreciate you for being you just the way you are.
Meanwhile, your guy proves to you every day that he is there for you and that he adores you in spite of all the negative things you think or feel about yourself.
While you are waiting for something terrible to happen your man proves you wrong
Coaching for single women looking for love can help you get a good partner with ease
I know it's hard to believe when you are a cynical smartass, but...
This kind of love exists. It happens for many women. They are not the lucky ones. They know that they are worthy of that kind of love. Once you can feel this for yourself, then you will be attracted to these kinds of guys that are also ready for this kind of love.
If you have a strong desire to be ready to receive love from the right partner, I know you can do it. I did it too, but it took me decades to get there. Please don’t be like me. Don’t wait so long. You can do it much faster than that with the right guidance.
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What are the next steps-how do we proceed
What’s the usual procedure when working with me?
- Book a free discovery session so we can see what you need to work on to be ready to get the love you want. During our conversation, we can create specific objectives that will help you accomplish your goals.
- If we decide to work together, I will send you initial documentation to complete online. You would complete a questionnaire too that would give me a little bit more information about you. This will give me more insight into your specific situation. We would schedule our meetings.
- You download ZOOM if you already don’t have it, and we would meet online. ZOOM is free and easy to work with.
My personal belief is that each of us is the best that the world can gift to one lucky person. Your anxiety prevents you from allowing yourself to show up as you are. You are IT for someone just because you are you!
I formed Be Here & Now Relationship Academy giving my best from decades of personal experience and years of diverse clinical work and advanced training. My drive is to help people accept themselves, so they can be ready for love.
Read more about my views
I've always been on a quest for love in my personal life, and it baffles me how complicated relationships get. Why is it so? We all want to give and receive love, so why isn't it easy?
After decades of trying to figure it out in my personal life and working with numerous clients in individual and couple's therapy, it's clear to me that anxiety is what keeps us from enjoying love, relationships, and life in general. You don't have to be diagnosed with anxiety to be hindered by it. In regular life, people call it fear.
I think it's a bit misguiding. Fear is our response to a real threat that's happening at the moment. We are designed to respond in fight, flight, or faint death responses to protect our physical safety.
Anxiety is different. You worry about all the potential scary outcomes and therefore stay away from what should be joyful in life. For instance, when it comes to love, you hide your true personality because you are worried that you will not be liked just the way you are. So, this is one of the reasons I specialize in anxiety and trauma. They prevent you from enjoying the most rewarding experience in life, love.
If you want to know more about my background and education, you can check it out. Read more abut Dalila
A moment of reflection
Now, I invite you to ask yourself an important question. Imagine if in five or ten years everything stays the same as it is now. How do you feel when you think like this?
If you are happy with it, then you don't have to do anything about your situation. If you are not, then I urge you to make the first step and book a free discovery session with me. This could be your first step towards the relationships you dream of.
If you are not ready to book the discovery session, then sign up for my free membership where you can get free courses about communication, limiting beliefs that prevent you from getting the love you want, and much more.
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