Empowered Women Know They Can Be Happy with Different Men
Confident, empowered women know they can be happy with more than one man. This deep understanding gives them a sense of power and knowing that they don’t need to settle for BS in any relationship. There is no need to tolerate imbalance of power in relationships. When we become aware of this fact, we provide a powerful message to future generations of women. We have choices and we can make decisions that work for us. We can put our wellbeing first. Are you willing to embrace this sense of power?
Power imbalance in relationships make women feel like there are limited choices of eligible men
Unfortunately most women who date someone and start liking him behave as if they are on a deserted island with only this man on the horizon. This scarcity mentality comes from the centuries of patriarchal propaganda and social structure that kept women feeling that quality men are scarce.
While so many women are educated and financially independent, we still carry that legacy of old propaganda from the times when we were sitting home and hoping that our parents would arrange a marriage for us.
Generational and attachment trauma keep us in this disempowered state. Our young wounded parts just didn’t get a memo that there are plenty of men who also want love, connection, and commitment. So many women wind up in situationships making three mistakes that keep them stuck and unhappy. There You can break this cycle in your life and be an example to future generations.
Consequences of having scarcity mentality
You have choices of men who want love, connection, and commitment
One of the biggest problems is that many women who want a healthy relationship get stuck on one partner only before they even know if he is right for them. When you position yourself like a pursuer it makes sense that there is an imbalance of power. You strive to make it work and convince him that he should like you. This naturally causes him to become a distancer, which gives him a sense of power.
How to avoid this? I always recommend dating more than one person, to avoid unhealthy relationship dynamics. Dating more people and slowing down your attachment process will help you retain your power in relationships and make good choices in your love life.
You don’t need to feel confused about where your relationship is going
It's important to recognize that you don't need to tolerate imbalance of power in relationships. You are the one who makes choices of giving up or retaining your power.
What would happen if you realize your power in romantic relationships?
Perhaps you would take your time to get to know people before latching onto someone. When you keep this important thought in mind, you will not feel out of power when in a relationship with someone who’s perhaps a little or a lot avoidant, or emotionally distant.
Imagine having multiple suitors each showing you what they are like while you take your time to figure out who is right for you, who makes you feel excited, attracted, but also emotionally safe? You wouldn’t need to overfunction or feel confused about where your relationship is going with this one semi interested guy. You deserve someone who’s stoked to be in your fantastic life.
What inspires me to help women in their love life?
I want our daughters to see their moms empowered, not just tolerating all the BS, such as imbalance of power in relationships, because they are the only ones that sacrifice in their relationships. I want all women to feel this abundance of choices in every cell of their body because that’s the reality. There are many men out there that would love to try to make you happy. Once you remember this, you will not experience imbalance in relationships.
You too can feel this reality. It’s finally time that you go after what you want, a relationship of your dreams in which you feel completely adored and appreciated. You too can finally stop the cycle of situationships and date quality men who are ready to love you the way you need to be loved.
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