You tried everything, and it didn’t work out. Although you haven’t counted on this, you are single and stuck in despair, anger, frustration, and distress. Divorce is one of the most difficult times in life. Specialized divorce counseling can be just what you need.
You may have struggled in relationships due to having hard times connecting with men or you’ve often chosen emotionally unavailable men.
You hoped that once you were married you could’ve made it work, but it didn’t work out although you’ve given your best. This leaves you feeling inadequate although you’ve accomplished so much in life and tried your best to work on your relationship.
Is love still important to you? Do you wonder if you will be able to find a right life partner? Do you worry that you will have to settle for a lonely life?
Divorce Left You Feeling Betrayed, Hopeless, Bitter, Frustrated, or Worthless?
Can you relate to any of these statements?
- Feeling inadequate
- Wondering if anything you do will ever matter to anyone
- Feeling you don’t deserve to be loved in the ways you truly crave
- You feel incompetent in spite of accomplishing so much
- Feeling you are never good enough
- You worry that your time has passed and you will never be happy again
- You don’t know if you will ever be able to trust men again
- This current dating scene makes you cringe
Right now, you are at a place of uncertainty, feeling inadequate, and wondering if anything you do will ever matter to anyone. You may even feel you don’t deserve the love and appreciation you crave. You’re not sure about how to move on in life and what matters to you at this point. Believe me, you are not alone feeling like this. Divorce stirs up old pain and brings these feelings back to the surface for all of us. I know this very well. I’ve gone through a similar struggle. It’s completely normal to feel the way you do. Read more about why divorce is painful in my article Painful Divorce Comes With the Territory: What Are the Struggles?
I can Help You Heal and Create Changes that Will Lead You Towards a Joyful Life and Empowerment
In order to help you achieve a joyful life and be able to be ready to love in a healthy relationship, I help you heal from wounding that led you to struggle in the relationships or making the wrong choices in partners. In my divorce counseling, I utilize mindfulness and body and mind oriented therapy to help you get in touch with your feelings that you may not be aware of. This process helps my clients feel empowered and feel that they can tolerate or manage difficult feelings. What are some of the changes that divorce counseling can bring?
- Stabilize and feel empowered to carry on with daily routine
- Explore where you’ve been and where you want to go in the future
- Resolve emotional pain that leads to struggles in relationships
- Develop intuition and know how to recognize your needs
- Be confident and stop being confused
- Turn your anger into empowerment
- Live a happy life based on your true sense of self
After Doing So Many Things for others, It’s Time to Focus on Yourself and See What Will Make You Happy in the Next Chapter of Your Life
When you become strong we work on helping you figure out what really matters to you in life. We reflect on your past relationships, your choices in partners, and what you can do differently in your future relationships.
I want you to know that finding a life partner and maintaining a happy relationship takes a lot of skill, reflection, and hard work. I know you can accomplish this as you’ve already accomplished so many other things in life This is the best you can do for yourself and for everyone in your life. Individual divorce counseling is effective in helping you reflect and be able to heal, so you can be ready to love again in a healthy relationship. Read more about divorce counseling and stages of divorce recovery in my article Divorce Recovery: 4 Stages to Reclaim Your Life published in Divorce Magazine.
What Can You Expect When Working in Divorce Counseling with Me?
I specialize in helping women get through divorce and other relationship challenges with the individual, equine assisted, or couples therapy sessions. I focus on helping women awaken their intuition and their emotional intelligence that’s been dormant due to a social upbringing that has caused us to fulfill expected roles.
In order to manage daily tasks, professional women resource to “staying in their heads.” In other words, they focus on so many things outside of themselves. They wind up thinking so much, but they often neglect their own feelings and what their body needs.
My work in divorce counseling or regular therapy focuses on helping you be in touch with your emotions by helping you “drop down to your body.” What does this mean? This means that we utilize techniques that will help you be whole again by integrating your body, mind, and intellect.
You’ve accomplished so much in your career by relying on your intellect. Helping you get in touch with your body and emotions while utilizing your intellect can help you be whole and feel better.
I teach you how to be aware of your feelings through your body. This can potentially help you develop the intuition that will help you make better decisions, increase self-esteem, feel confident, or be able to make better choices in partners.
Imagine How Your Life Could Be-Divorce Counseling Can Help You Be Ready
How great it would be if you felt confident about yourself and that decisions you make are right for you. I know that you know that you are an amazing woman. How cool it would be if you could embody this confidence. How great it would be to have it when you meet men online, in a coffee shop, etc. What can this confidence lead to?
Imagine if you could be in a relationship with a man who is trying to prove to you that he is the right one for you instead of you wondering if you should text him back now or in a few hours. You like him, and the relationship is going smoothly. Would you wonder “How long will this last? What’s gonna happen to stop this bliss?” And imagine after you show the man all your idiosyncrasies, temper, and your true self, his love for you deepens. This happens when you allow yourself to be authentic.
My clients report feeling empowered, grounded, and happy. Women that I work with tell me that relationships become easy and they can manage difficult feelings much better than before. Individual divorce counseling helped them in learning how to manage their emotions and set clear boundaries.
You’ve done so many amazing things. I want to tell you that you can master relationships too. Work in divorce therapy can help you:
- Live a fulfilling life and be happier than before
- Be clear with what you want
- Be able to understand yourself
- Get ready to trust men again
- Feel competent in relationships
- Set clear boundaries and let others learn how to respect them
- Be ready to date, socialize, enjoy single life, or…
Time for You to Turn to Yourself
You’ve gone long enough living your life based on what society told you. Don’t you think? It’s time to focus on yourself now and find out how you can be the one who determines how you want to live the next chapter of your life. Divorce counseling may be a good step for you at this time.
What’s the alternative? You will continue feeling lonely while yearning for true love. How about continuing feeling confused and incompetent in terms of relationships. Will you continue wondering how other, less intelligent and less attractive women succeed in love while you date people who make you feel hopeless about finding someone that you can love and who will love you back? Read more about how you can be empowered to master today’s dating scene.
Working with me can help you gain the understanding of who you are, what you need, and how you can find it in the way that’s true to yourself. This can enable you to present yourself in the authentic ways that will be attractive to the men that you want to be with. You will be able to communicate your needs and desires in the ways that show both your soft and strong sides. What a great role model you can provide to your children.
It’s time to invest in yourself after all these years of being there for everyone else. Call me, text me, or book online for a free consultation, so you and I can figure out what your next step is.
I’m located at a convenient location in Agoura Hills and Westlake Village serving nearby areas, such as Thousand Oaks, Oak Park, Calabasas, Malibu, etc. I also provide secure online counseling or therapy. Call to see if divorce counseling is right for you.
Let’s connect! Book online a free initial phone consultation so we can see what can be your first step in recovering from divorce
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