Are You Ready to Transform Anxious Dating Patterns into Soulful, Lasting Love?
Secure Love Creator™ is a 6-month neuroscience-based program for successful women to transform anxiety-driven dating patterns like:
- Staying in situationships hoping they'll turn into something real
- Accepting breadcrumbs of attention while wanting more
- Chasing and pursuing when he pulls away
- Compromising your standards out of fear of being alone
Into:
- Magnetic confidence
- Attracting consistent pursuit from quality men
- Creating secure, lasting love through proven attachment-based strategies
You too, can be one of those lucky women who have it so easy. It has nothing to do with luck, fortune, attractiveness...It takes some understanding of your attachment patterns and strategic dating tailored for your specific goals.
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Are you a successful woman wondering why love feels harder than it should?
For Successful Women Who Are Ready for Real Love
You might be experiencing:
The Emotional Rollercoaster
You're tired of the intense ups and downs - men who pursue passionately at first, then mysteriously pull away just as emotional connection deepens. This pattern typically emerges around the 2–3-month mark, just when you start feeling hopeful about the relationship. It leaves you questioning what you did wrong and wondering if you're somehow too much or not enough.
The Overthinking Spiral
You find yourself constantly analyzing every interaction, text, and date. Despite your success in other areas, dating turns you into an anxious overthinker: Did you say too much? Not enough? Why hasn't he texted back? Should you reach out? This mental exhaustion affects your confidence and peace of mind, making dating feel like a second full-time job.
The Self Expression Struggle
You walk on eggshells trying to express your needs and feelings. When you do share them, you're often labeled as "too needy" or "too intense." This creates a painful cycle - either you hold back and feel inauthentic, or you express yourself and worry about pushing him away. Either way, you feel unable to be fully yourself in relationships.
The Success-Love Disconnect
While you're thriving in your career, your love life feels like a constant source of disappointment. You watch other women, often less accomplished, find lasting love while you remain single or stuck in unfulfilling relationships. This creates a deep frustration - the more successful you become, the harder it seems to find a man who can match your depth and meet you as an equal.
If any of this resonates with you, I'm here to help
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Here’s What You’ll Get...
Secure Love Creator™, your 6-month journey from anxious dating to secure, lasting love.
- From day one, you'll access our complete transformation system, including weekly 90-minute group coaching sessions, practical tools, and supportive community. Following our neuroscience-based framework and implementing 2-3 hours weekly, you'll develop the magnetic presence that naturally attracts quality men, master authentic communication that deepens connection, and create the secure relationship you deserve.
- With our 6-month success guarantee, you'll have all the support needed to find and maintain lasting love.
From Over functioning and Anxiety to Magnetic Presence
Transform from overthinking every interaction to naturally attracting quality men. Using neuroscience-based methods and the Queen of Hearts Mindset™, you'll develop an authentic confidence that makes quality men want to pursue you consistently. No more second-guessing or walking on eggshells - just natural, magnetic presence that comes from genuine self-assurance.
Master the Art of Secure Connection
Learn how to create deep emotional bonds without losing yourself. Through the 5-Stage Secure Attachment Dating™ process and Love Building Communication™, you'll express needs in ways that inspire men to open up and commit, rather than pull away. You'll understand exactly how to pace relationships, creating the emotional safety that allows love to develop naturally and securely.
Create Your Lasting Love Legacy
Move beyond temporary fixes to create generational change. Using the Dual Empathy Method™ and Right Partner Radar™, you'll not only find lasting love but learn how to maintain it. Transform conflict into connection, build unshakeable bonds, and create the kind of secure attachment that strengthens over time - setting a new standard for love in your life and future generations.
No more emotional rollercoasters - just clear, confident paths to authentic love.
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Here is what other women are saying about working with Dalila
Before Dalila's program, love felt like a battleground, marked by endless anxiety and fleeting connections. I was the high-achiever in every room but felt powerless in love. Dalila's warmth and wisdom shined a light on my anxious attachment, transforming not just my love life but how I viewed myself. Today, I stand secure, deeply loved by a partner who sees me. This journey to soulful love started in Dalila's masterclass, and it's been the most beautiful chapter of my life.
I came to Dalila's program exhausted from losing hope after meeting so many men who were half-way in it. I was ready to accept singledom. Skeptical but desperate, I joined Dalila’s program, where I found not only strategies but a healing place where I could meet my real self. Her guidance was so intuitive. She could see all my blind spots, but she was so compassionate that I didn’t feel uncomfortable. It was actually quite healing to be seen and honored. I could finally accept myself, my feelings, and my desires. Once I realized that what I want is completely natural, it became easy to attract men who wanted the same things…
Now, I'm celebrating my first anniversary with a man who’s exited to be my husband. Dalila didn't just help me find love; she helped me find my way home to myself.
As a high achieving woman, admitting I needed help in love was a challenge. But Dalila's program spoke to me like nothing else. Her blend of clinical insight and heartfelt advice made me feel seen. The exercises felt tailored just for me, turning my anxious attachment into secure, soulful love. Six months post-program, and I've met someone who meets me at every level — emotionally, intellectually, and spiritually. I've not only found love; I've discovered a peace I didn't know was possible. Dalila's program was the turning point, the moment when everything started to change.
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From Overfunctioning Love Seeker to Secure Love Creator™
Reclaim your power to create secure, lasting love - instead of hoping, waiting, and over-giving for it
Let’s create your own love story YOUR way
Secure Love Creator™ Group Coaching Program
by Dalila Jusic-LaBerge
STAGE 1: RADIANT SELF-CONFIDENCE
Transform Your Inner World & Dating Presence
Queen of Hearts Mindset Reset™
- Discover your natural magnetism by shifting the way you look at yourself, men, and the process of dating, so you can actually enjoy the darn process instead of dreading it
- Release disempowering mindset that relies on sheer luck and hope
- Enjoy the “magic” of feeling like one of those “lucky” women who don’t have hard time getting invitations for dates from relationship ready quality men
Self-Liberation Roadmap™
- Decode your unique sabotaging attachment patterns, triggers, and how you can use this to create powerful connections with men
- Master emotional regulation techniques and stop sabotaging your love life
- Transform anxiety triggers into confidence signals
- Create your personalized dating profile that attracts highly qualified (relationship ready) men who will adore you just the way you are
After completing this stage you will start transitioning from an overfunctioning love seeker to a woman who can enjoy dating and meeting highly desirable relationship ready men. You still may not know how to date for the commitment without attaching too quickly.
STAGE 2: MASTERFUL COURTING
Navigate Dating with Confidence & Clarity
5-Stage Secure Attachment Dating™
- Understand each stage of authentic connection, boundaries, and expectations
- Master timing for emotional safety and building deep powerful connection
- Navigate intimacy development confidently by knowing how to position yourself at different stages, how to communicate your needs and boundaries, and how to discern if you are on the right track with someone
Love Building Communication™
- Express needs, boundaries, and desires in the ways that inspire quality men to pursue you
- Transform triggers into connection points by communicating from the place of self-love instead of resentment
- Create emotional safety that men crave by tacitly communicating your high expectations from a man. This kind of communication makes men want to be a better man for the woman they love.
Right Partner Radar™
- Identify relationship-ready men early
- Spot genuine emotional availability
- Filter for long-term compatibility
- Make confident partner choices beyond checklists with items like, tall, handsome, from a good family, treats me nicely…None of these items can ensure that you will be in a happy relationship with someone. There are other, more important aspects that you need to be aware of. Most women don’t know how it feels to be in a healthy relationship.
When you finish this stage, you will become a dating goddess who knows how to express her needs, desires, and boundaries in the ways that draw quality men eager to become your partner. You still may not know how to transition from “we are together” to “till death do us part.”
STAGE 3: RELATIONSHIP MASTERY
Create Lasting, Secure Love and Generational Legacy
Men's Mind Manual™
Understanding men’s deep emotional needs in a relationship beyond attachment.
- Decode male emotional needs
- Understand what men need to fall in love with you
- Inspire natural, consistent pursuit just by being yourself when you find the right partner and when you learn to communicate your needs and boundaries
- Foster genuine emotional investment by allowing yourself to receive his gifts, affection, and efforts.
Healthy Relationship Blueprint™ Sustainable Love Architecture:
- Build lasting emotional security
- Maintain magnetic attraction
- Create deep intimacy naturally
- Sustain healthy attachment patterns
Dual Empathy Method™
- Build deep emotional connection with a man worthy of your choice
- Learn how to be present for both yourself and your partner in triggering situations
- Transform conflicts into deeper closeness and reassurance
- Create generational secure attachment
When you complete the program, you should know how to attract men, communicate in the magnetic ways that lead to bonding with quality men, and how to maintain healthy relationships (how to argue to deepen healing and bond with your partner, how to regulate emotions when old trauma triggers come up, and ultimately how to seek support when needed to grow
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Meet
Dalila Jusic-LaBerge
I'm the owner of Be Here & Now Counseling and Relationship Academy. I specialize in working with accomplished women, who yearn for love but feel lost in romantic relationships. I help them heal, connect to their own emotions, develop intuition, and be ready to connect on a deeper emotional level with loved ones.
Love has been my yearning in life forever. I remember as a little girl thinking, “One day, I will find the love of my life.” Besides that, I geek out on politics and hopelessly try to convince people we deserve better treatment like in other developed countries.
But, perhaps more relevant to you, I’m a licensed marriage and family therapist and relationship coach helping women create relationships that will actually make them happy and in which they can love freely without the need for overfunctioning, confusion, and mind games.
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After countless heartbreaks, I stumbled upon Dalila's program, skeptical but hopeful. Her promise of guiding me towards soulful love seemed too good to be true. Yet, her compassionate approach and clinical wisdom resonated with my weary heart. Through her program, I unearthed a deep sense of self-love and security, the key I'd been missing. Now, I'm sharing my life with someone who not only cherishes my achievements but also my soul. This journey to soulful love has been the most significant transformation of my life, all thanks to Dalila."
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… As a professional woman, I hoped to meet a man who wasn't intimidated by my success. Dalila's program helped me discover how closed off I was to quality men who were not intimidated by my success. I realized I was the one who kept pursuing men who couldn’t love me the way I needed them to love me. Dalila helped me work through the attachment trauma that prevented me from being open to real love regardless of how much I craved it. Today, I'm not just in a relationship; I'm in a partnership that nourishes my soul and celebrates my ambitions. I still need to pinch myself on occasion wondering when this will all fall apart, but no. It’s not falling apart. We are growing closer and closer instead. We are engaged and my fiance is proud and inspired by my success.
Let’s create your love story YOUR way
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