Heal to Love to Live
Helping Women Heal, so They Can Enjoy Life and Love
Do you feel that each romantic relationship is an uphill battle?
Do you often ask yourself these questions?
- Why do I struggle in love, although I'm accomplished and attractive?
- Why am I always attracted to emotionally unavallable men?
- I feel stuck in my relationship . What can I do?
Relationship counseling can help. Read about my aproach to relationship counseling and how I help women.
Is Loneliness Bringing You Down or Are You Just Keeping Yourself Busy to Forget It?
Do you stay late at work, just because you don't want to face your loneliness? When you come home, do you feel sad, frustrated, and empty? Do you feel stuck and unable to change your situation? You may be in a bad marriage, dating losers, or divorced and wondering if you will ever be happy in love.
Deep down this is hurting you, but you just keep doing other things instaed. You've created a busy life filled with new goals and projects to avoid dealing with the pain of loneliness. How long can you carry on without attending to your own needs and that deep yearning for a fulfilling, loving relationship? Maybe you can carry on for awhile, maybe even a lifetime, but at what cost?
Therapy and relationship counseling can help you deal with difficult emotions and give you the tools to handle future difficulties on your own. I help women like you work through their difficult feelings, so they can be their best selves and enjoy relationships with their loved ones.
I also offer relationship coaching to help you make behavioral changes that will help you improve your relationships.
What can I help you with?
Relationship Counseling for Women
I help you heal from the wounding that led you to struggle in your relationships , so you can enjoy love and life
Divorce and Breakup Recovery Therapy
Heal the trauma from the grief of a breakup and be able to live the best life ever, based on your true values.
Couples on the Brink Counseling
Gain clarity about a direction, based on a deeper understanding of your relationship and its possibilities.
Secure Online Video Counseling
Too busy to communte to my office? Connect with me on a secure video platform from the comfort of your own home.
Couples Therapy for stronger Relationships
Instead of suffering, working with me can allow you to help each other heal and move your relationship to the next level.
Teen Girls and Young Women Counseling
Is your daughter struggling with anxiety, depression, or difficulty adjusting? I can help her heal and gain valuable coping skills.
Neglecting Your Needs Can Lead to Feeling Stressed Out, Anxious, and Moody
You can continue to carry on with daily living, accomplishing great things in your career and put your heart issues on the backburner. You think this should come easy, right? You don't need to get a degree in relationships after all for God's sake. And you are totally right. It would be wonderful if relationships would come easy. But evidently, it's not for many of us. Relationship counseling can help you address these difficult issues that affect your abilit yto have good relationships.
No Relationship University Out There, but Relationship Counseling Can Help
Our upbringing emphasized achievements and accomplishing career goals. They didn't teach us how to read and trust our feelings and feel confident about them. Read more about how you can utilize your anger to be in touch with your feelings in Understanding Anger Can Empower Women to Live Authentic Lives, my article published in Psych Central. Being in touch with your feelings is the basis of successful relationships. But, when it hurts, we don't want to feel. We go to work, shop, eat, drink, surf the internet, etc..
While accomplishing all those amazing things in life, you haven't noticed that stress , anxiety, or anger issues have crept up. You've might have struggled with this before, but now you are not sure if you can manage it. If these symptoms are not treated, this can often lead to physical ailments or more difficult adjustment issues.
These kinds of problems don't go away by themselves. Getting therapy helps deal with these difficult emotions and helps you live a fulfilling life. When you finally work on these issues and your old wounding, relationships become easy and natural.
Imagine how your life could be!
Working with me can help you gain an understanding of who you are, what you need, and how you can find it in a way that’s true to yourself. This can enable you to present yourself in an authentic way that will be attractive to men and they will be drawn to you because you get each other and will be happy to show you that they are right for you.
I can help you to:
- Live a more fulfilling life
- Better manage difficult emotions
- Beter understand yourself and what you want most
- Feel competent in relationships
- Set clear boundaries in relationships
Do you still yearn for a loving and authentic relationship? Are you looking to be accepted for who you are, or have you decided that this is a pipe dream that will never happen?
Should you continue living in a cocoon? You may feel safe, but also dead inside. What’s the purpose of your life? Are you ready to throw in the towel when it comes to relationships? You truly are amazing, even though you may not feel like that right now. Please, don’t give up on yourself and your chances of happiness. Relationship counseling is focused on helping you with this.
Now is the time to transform your life. Nothing new will happen if you continue doing the same things. It's time for you to focus on your own happiness for a change.
Start by booking a free 15 mintue phone session with me. This can be your first step towards owning your life and making the necessary changes towards happiness and a meaningful life. Let's see if relationship counseling is right for you.
What to expect when working with me.
I work with amazing, accomplished, women who also yearn for a deep, loving partner and relationship. All your life you’ve been focused on your intellectual accomplishments and I can help you get in touch with your emotions and develop the intuition and skills that will make you feel competent in relationships.
In order to help you achieve a joyful life and be ready to love in healthy relationships, I help you heal from wounding and trauma that led you to struggle in these relationships or make the wrong choice in partners. In my counseling and therapy work, I utilize mindfulness and body/ mind oriented therapy to help you get in touch with feelings you may not be aware of. This process helps my clients feel empowered and feel that they can tolerate or manage these difficult feelings.
When you become strong, we work on helping you figure out what really matters to you in life. We reflect on your past relationships, your choice in partners, and what you can do differently in your future relationships. Read more about how I work.
I’m Dalila Jusic-LaBerge, owner of Be Here & Now Counseling. I specialize in working with amazing intellectual, accomplished, professional women who yearn for love but feel lost in romantic relationships. I help them heal, connect to their own emotions, develop intuition, and be ready to connect on a deeper emotional level.
I’m passionate about helping women find their authenticity in modern society. It’s definitely a challenge to manage. I also contribute to magazines and write my own articles to help women. Read more about my background, education, and personality at About Dalila