Six Tips for Attracting Men Who Want Real Love

Six Tips for Attracting Men Who Want Real Love 

In a world where finding real love can often feel like finding a needle in a haystack, it’s easy to feel lost and exhausted. Are you yearning for a man who understands and appreciates you for who you truly are? Craving a relationship that adds color to your life, a partnership that aims for the same love goals as you do? Hang in there, because ‘real love’ exists beyond the realm of fairy tales, and it's closer than you think.

Does real love exist today?

Does real love exist

Modern love can feel complicated and, at times, mind-boggling. There are countless women globally who frequently find themselves grappling with unsuccessful relationships, feeling out of control and even helpless. Shattered hearts, bruised expectations - the search for real love can often make us question its very existence.

After so many heartbreaks, you find yourself wondering if it's even possible. 

Although many of you are successful and confident about other aspects in your life, finding love seems to be something elusive, outside of your control. It's almost as if you depend on destiny or good luck. 

But, I want to tell you that it doesn't have to be this way. There is a specific path to finding love with a man of your dreams. I will give you some courtship tips that will help you.

If you want real love, you need different strategies

Enter 'Courtship 2.0,' an entirely different game than what our mothers and grandmothers played. The rules have evolved; so should our strategies. It's essential to understand that wanting real love doesn't equal settling for just 'someone.’ You deserve a partner who celebrates your being, who desires a profound bond as you do. 

My program, 'The Course of True Love', has already helped so many high-achieving women like you. Today, I'll be sharing insights from those successful strategies that have reshaped their love lives. 

With these tips, you can captivate the committed, emotionally secure partner that will be aligned with your goal in love life.

If you want real love, you need different strategies

1.  Like attracts like - Be authentic 

Here's a truth bomb - authenticity is the greatest, most irreplaceable asset you can have when attracting a man seeking real love. Authenticity might sound cliched, but it's the key to establishing deep, genuine connections. When you confidently express your desires and needs, when you respect your boundaries, you portray a strong, attractive persona that men find irresistible.

Afraid of expressing your desire for a committed relationship? Don't be. Let's discard stigma and embrace our needs. Asserting your desire for a wholesome relationship won't repel the right man. Instead, it'll help you filter out non-serious prospects faster, reducing potential heartaches. What does it mean when it comes to dating and courtship. Most importantly, don't hesitate to express what exactly you want. I see many women feeling ashamed to say that they want marriage, family, partnership. Very often I hear them say something like, "Oh, I don't know what I want." 

When you do this, you will naturally attract men who don't know what they want. 

2. Courtship - Use this phase as the research phase 

Think of courtship as your research phase, your opportunity to analyze and understand a potential partner's values and lifestyle. This isn't time to blindly fall in love, but the perfect chance to determine if your potential partner can provide you with the real love you yearn for. Remember, this period isn't about trying to fit a square peg in a round hole but about discerning compatibility on important aspects for a lasting love. This is essential if you are looking for real love and a partner that you will be happy with for a long term.

Besides, you are not only figuring out your potential partners, but also getting to know yourself a bit more.  

3. The Queen of Hearts Mindset Reset-Your path to self-confidence 

Mirror, mirror on the wall, who's the fairest of them all? You, yes YOU. Remember! You are the best human on this planet for one lucky guy and instead of figuring out if you measure up, you position yourself as someone who is figuring out if they are right for you.  Stepping into the dating scene might feel intimidating, but remember: it's about understanding whether someone is right for you, not about making yourself likable or acceptable to them.

My program, The Course of True Love, features a crucial tool for boosting your confidence - The Queen of Hearts Mindset Reset. When you embody the mindset of a queen, you communicate self-esteem, assurance, and poise, naturally attracting amazing, committed men.

Remember, the queen of hearts doesn't need to prove herself to anyone.

4. Slow and steady wins the real love race 

Rushing in love is much like fast-forwarding a beautiful song - you lose the essence. The fourth tip for finding real love centers around patience. Slow down your pace and take the time to deeply understand the one you're courting. If someone is right for you, they'll respect your pace and will relish the journey to love, not rush the destination.

Keep in mind, you are discerning, not trying to seal the deal. You are here to see who is right for you for a life partner.This also allows men the space to feel that they are the ones who pursued you. They love it, and you crave exactly that. You want them to pursue you, right? 

5. Be proactive-Make a move

Let's banish old stereotypes. In the modern dating world, it's okay, even encouraged, to initiate. If you're interested in someone, step up and let them know. 

You are an empowered woman, after all. By doing so, you are not pledging your love to someone, but just telling them that you are open to being pursued by them. This makes you look confident, and it allows you to have more choices.  Keep in mind, there are men that may, think that they wouldn't have chances with you. Why would you just wait for someone to approach to you, when you can have much wider reach.

6. Keep in mind that dating isn't a relationship-date more people

Here's a gentle reminder - dating isn't a relationship. Each date is a new opportunity to discover if you’d want to meet this person again. Court multiple people at the initial stage rather than hastily insisting on exclusivity. This widened scope reduces premature attachment and offers more space and clarity to make conscious, better decisions.

This can slow down the attachment process, giving you more space and clarity about what works and what doesn't work for you.  This is especially important for women who may have an anxious attachment as it allows you space to slow down. 

With the right support you can find love quickly and not wait for years and decades 


As we navigate the tricky waters of modern love, you might feel the trepidation of going astray. With tailored strategies from 'The Course of True Love,' you gain more control in your pursuit of real love. We help you handle emotionally intense dating situations, providing tools for you to effectively court men ready for a genuine relationship.

These are just some general tips and strategies, and when you work with me, you have a chance to get my direct feedback on your situation. We help you manage your emotions because they will arise. Dating is one of the most triggering situations for so many people, but it's also a great opportunity for healing. 


We also help you manage two month freakout when he starts withdrawing and you start feeling more and more anxious. You need to know how to handle this situation effectively to make sure you don't sabotage potential with this person, or otherwise you get a chance to determine if he is the one. 

Many women also struggle moving through different stages of courtship, from dating, through relationship to commitment. Too often, situationships mask themselves as real relationships. They give you the illusion of commitment but are quicksand under the guise of firm ground. It's time we break this pattern. 

If you'd like detailed guidance on communicating your needs effectively to create magnetic attraction and emotional bonding, my resource- 'Communication Scripts for Captivating His Lasting Interest' is your perfect aide. Access it below and embark on a journey where the right men treat you like the queen of hearts, and real love isn't a dream but a beautiful reality.

With the right approach and strategies, unlocking the door to real love becomes possible, moving from a dreamy wish to a tangible reality. Are you ready to enter the realm of real love?

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In a world where finding real love can often feel like finding a needle in a haystack, it’s easy to feel lost and exhausted. Are you yearning for a man who understands and appreciates you for who you truly are? Craving a relationship that adds color to your life, a partnership that aims for the same love goals as you do? Hang in there, because ‘real love’ exists beyond the realm of fairy tales, and it’s closer than you think. 

Does real love exist today? 

Modern love can feel complicated and, at times, mind-boggling. There are countless women globally who frequently find themselves grappling with unsuccessful relationships, feeling out of control and even helpless. Shattered hearts, bruised expectations – the search for real love can often make us question its very existence.

After so many heartbreaks, you find yourself wondering if it’s even possible. 

Although many of you are successful and confident about other aspects in your life, finding love seems to be something elusive, outside of your control. It’s almost as if you depend on destiny or good luck. 

But, I want to tell you that it doesn’t have to be this way. There is a specific path to finding love with a man of your dreams. I will give you some courtship tips that will help you. 

If you want real love, you need different strategies 

Enter ‘Courtship 2.0,’ an entirely different game than what our mothers and grandmothers played. The rules have evolved; so should our strategies. It’s essential to understand that wanting real love doesn’t equal settling for just ‘someone.’ You deserve a partner who celebrates your being, who desires a profound bond as you do. 

My program, ‘The Course of True Love’, has already helped so many high-achieving women like you. Today, I’ll be sharing insights from those successful strategies that have reshaped their love lives. 

With these tips, you can captivate the committed, emotionally secure partner that will be aligned with your goal in love life. 

1.  Like attracts like – Be authentic 

Here’s a truth bomb – authenticity is the greatest, most irreplaceable asset you can have when attracting a man seeking real love. Authenticity might sound cliched, but it’s the key to establishing deep, genuine connections. When you confidently express your desires and needs, when you respect your boundaries, you portray a strong, attractive persona that men find irresistible.

Afraid of expressing your desire for a committed relationship? Don’t be. Let’s discard stigma and embrace our needs. Asserting your desire for a wholesome relationship won’t repel the right man. Instead, it’ll help you filter out non-serious prospects faster, reducing potential heartaches. What does it mean when it comes to dating and courtship. Most importantly, don’t hesitate to express what exactly you want. I see many women feeling ashamed to say that they want marriage, family, partnership. Very often I hear them say something like, “Oh, I don’t know what I want.” 

When you do this, you will naturally attract men who don’t know what they want.  

2. Courtship – Use this phase as the research phase 

Think of courtship as your research phase, your opportunity to analyze and understand a potential partner’s values and lifestyle. This isn’t time to blindly fall in love, but the perfect chance to determine if your potential partner can provide you with the real love you yearn for. Remember, this period isn’t about trying to fit a square peg in a round hole but about discerning compatibility on important aspects for a lasting love. This is essential if you are looking for real love and a partner that you will be happy with for a long term.

Besides, you are not only figuring out your potential partners, but also getting to know yourself a bit more.   

3. The Queen of Hearts Mindset Reset-Your path to self-confidence 

Mirror, mirror on the wall, who’s the fairest of them all? You, yes YOU. Remember! You are the best human on this planet for one lucky guy and instead of figuring out if you measure up, you position yourself as someone who is figuring out if they are right for you.  Stepping into the dating scene might feel intimidating, but remember: it’s about understanding whether someone is right for you, not about making yourself likable or acceptable to them.

My program, The Course of True Love, features a crucial tool for boosting your confidence – The Queen of Hearts Mindset Reset. When you embody the mindset of a queen, you communicate self-esteem, assurance, and poise, naturally attracting amazing, committed men.

Remember, the queen of hearts doesn’t need to prove herself to anyone. 

4, Slow and steady wins the real love race 

Rushing in love is much like fast-forwarding a beautiful song – you lose the essence. The fourth tip for finding real love centers around patience. Slow down your pace and take the time to deeply understand the one you’re courting. If someone is right for you, they’ll respect your pace and will relish the journey to love, not rush the destination.

Keep in mind, you are discerning, not trying to seal the deal. You are here to see who is right for you for a life partner.This also allows men the space to feel that they are the ones who pursued you. They love it, and you crave exactly that. You want them to pursue you, right? 

5. Be proactive-Make a move

Let’s banish old stereotypes. In the modern dating world, it’s okay, even encouraged, to initiate. If you’re interested in someone, step up and let them know. 

You are an empowered woman, after all. By doing so, you are not pledging your love to someone, but just telling them that you are open to being pursued by them. This makes you look confident, and it allows you to have more choices.  Keep in mind, there are men that may, think that they wouldn’t have chances with you. Why would you just wait for someone to approach to you, when you can have much wider reach. 

6. Keep in mind that dating isn’t a relationship-date more people

Here’s a gentle reminder – dating isn’t a relationship. Each date is a new opportunity to discover if you’d want to meet this person again. Court multiple people at the initial stage rather than hastily insisting on exclusivity. This widened scope reduces premature attachment and offers more space and clarity to make conscious, better decisions.

This can slow down the attachment process, giving you more space and clarity about what works and what doesn’t work for you.  This is especially important for women who may have an anxious attachment as it allows you space to slow down. 

With the right support you can find love quickly and not wait for years and decades 

As we navigate the tricky waters of modern love, you might feel the trepidation of going astray. With tailored strategies from ‘The Course of True Love,’ you gain more control in your pursuit of real love. We help you handle emotionally intense dating situations, providing tools for you to effectively court men ready for a genuine relationship.

These are just some general tips and strategies, and when you work with me, you have a chance to get my direct feedback on your situation. We help you manage your emotions because they will arise. Dating is one of the most triggering situations for so many people, but it’s also a great opportunity for healing. 

We also help you manage two month freakout when he starts withdrawing and you start feeling more and more anxious. You need to know how to handle this situation effectively to make sure you don’t sabotage potential with this person, or otherwise you get a chance to determine if he is the one. 

Many women also struggle moving through different stages of courtship, from dating, through relationship to commitment. Too often, situationships mask themselves as real relationships. They give you the illusion of commitment but are quicksand under the guise of firm ground. It’s time we break this pattern. 

If you’d like detailed guidance on communicating your needs effectively to create magnetic attraction and emotional bonding, my resource- ‘Communication Scripts for Captivating His Lasting Interest‘ is your perfect aide. Access it below and embark on a journey where the right men treat you like the queen of hearts, and real love isn’t a dream but a beautiful reality.

With the right approach and strategies, unlocking the door to real love becomes possible, moving from a dreamy wish to a tangible reality. Are you ready to enter the realm of real love?

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