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		<title>Don&#8217;t Worry Why Some Men Are Intimidated by Powerful Women</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Feb 2022 21:28:59 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Feel Like a Muse (even if your guy isn't a poet) If you are one of modern high achieving women struggling on the dating scene, you may come to a conclusion that men are intimidated by you because you are powerful, earn a lot, straightforward, and so on. I hear so many women asking "Why [&#8230;]</p>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Dalila Jusic-LaBerge]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2020 23:19:39 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Understanding your attachment style will help you avoid struggling when dating. In this interview, I answer many questions about how attachment styles affect dating. </p>
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		<title>Comprehensive Guide to Stop Over-Functioning and Enjoy Dating</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Dalila Jusic-LaBerge]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 23 May 2020 19:31:57 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Feel Like a Muse (even if your guy isn't a poet) If you have an anxious attachment style, you may be prone to over-functioning and propelling the relationship. It may be hard for you to enjoy dating, which is essential if you want to find love. In this blog, I will explain how you can [&#8230;]</p>
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		<title>Origins of Insecurities that Cause Women to Over-Function in Relationships</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Dalila Jusic-LaBerge]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 May 2020 20:54:37 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Feel Like a Muse (even if your guy isn't a poet) What are the causes of insecurity in relationships that makes us over-function and unable to enjoy dating and courting process?One of my readers asked: "I feel the urge to lock in the next date straight away, to “see where it’s going” and to progress [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://www.behereandnow.com/origins-of-insecurities-that-cause-women-to-over-function-in-relationships/">Origins of Insecurities that Cause Women to Over-Function in Relationships</a> appeared first on <a href="https://www.behereandnow.com">Relationship Consulting for High Achieving Women:</a>.</p>
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		<title>Handle Your Anger Properly so You Don&#8217;t Ruin Your Relationship With an Avoidant Partner</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Dalila Jusic-LaBerge]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Mar 2020 14:47:47 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Feel Like a Muse (even if your guy isn't a poet) Do you ever find yourself hurt by a guy to the point of wanting to do something extreme, like breaking up, demonstratively leaving the restaurant while tossing a drink in his face, or slamming the door and leaving? You showed him that you are [&#8230;]</p>
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		<title>Are You Standing in Your Way to a Happy Relationship</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Dalila Jusic-LaBerge]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jul 2019 15:39:17 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Feel Like a Muse (even if your guy isn't a poet) If your goal is to have a happy relationship, you may be frustrated with how hard it seems to find a partner. To make matters worse, you may feel as people are blaming you for being single. That sucks.&#160;You've worked so hard to get [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://www.behereandnow.com/are-you-standing-in-your-way-to-a-happy-relationship/">Are You Standing in Your Way to a Happy Relationship</a> appeared first on <a href="https://www.behereandnow.com">Relationship Consulting for High Achieving Women:</a>.</p>
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		<title>Are You Ready for Love</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Dalila Jusic-LaBerge]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Mar 2019 17:25:38 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Feel Like a Muse (even if your guy isn't a poet) Sure you want love. Love is something that we all strive for. As mammals, we are created to bond with other humans. If that bonding doesn't occur properly, you will have issues that will make it hard to get the love you crave. If [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://www.behereandnow.com/are-you-ready-for-love/">Are You Ready for Love</a> appeared first on <a href="https://www.behereandnow.com">Relationship Consulting for High Achieving Women:</a>.</p>
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		<title>Are Your Old Issues Ruining Your Love Life</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Dalila Jusic-LaBerge]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Mar 2019 04:35:54 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Feel Like a Muse (even if your guy isn't a poet) &#160;If you are like the majority of us, you will have some old wounds from your childhood or your previous relationships. It's essential to understand how these past issues are ruining your love life so that you can address them. Awareness is the beginning [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://www.behereandnow.com/are-your-old-issues-ruining-your-love-life/">Are Your Old Issues Ruining Your Love Life</a> appeared first on <a href="https://www.behereandnow.com">Relationship Consulting for High Achieving Women:</a>.</p>
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		<title>How to Stop Overthinking in Relationships</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Dalila Jusic-LaBerge]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jan 2019 22:26:07 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Feel Like a Muse (even if your guy isn't a poet) We've all been there. You meet this great guy, things go so well, and then you become a little worried about some of his behaviors. You start doubting yourself and wondering if there is any way that this guy is seriously interested in you. [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://www.behereandnow.com/how-to-stop-overthinking-in-relationships/">How to Stop Overthinking in Relationships</a> appeared first on <a href="https://www.behereandnow.com">Relationship Consulting for High Achieving Women:</a>.</p>
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		<title>Create Healthy Space in Your Relationship</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Dalila Jusic-LaBerge]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Dec 2018 19:54:02 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Feel Like a Muse (even if your guy isn't a poet) You meet this amazing guy. You can't believe how happy you are. Things are going so well, but you are waiting for something negative to happen, and then bam. He tells you that he wants to "take it slow."&#160; Instead of creating the scenes [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://www.behereandnow.com/create-healthy-space-in-your-relationship/">Create Healthy Space in Your Relationship</a> appeared first on <a href="https://www.behereandnow.com">Relationship Consulting for High Achieving Women:</a>.</p>
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