Relationship advice by Dalila Jusic-LaBerge, Licensed Therapist https://www.behereandnow.com/tag/relationship-advice/ From Anxious Love Seeker to Secure Love Creator Sun, 09 Mar 2025 14:35:11 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 https://www.behereandnow.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/cropped-Favicon.png Relationship advice by Dalila Jusic-LaBerge, Licensed Therapist https://www.behereandnow.com/tag/relationship-advice/ 32 32 124845078 Healing in Relationships: Why You Don’t Need to Wait to Find Love https://www.behereandnow.com/healing-in-relationships-why-you-dont-need-to-wait-to-find-love/ https://www.behereandnow.com/healing-in-relationships-why-you-dont-need-to-wait-to-find-love/#respond Fri, 07 Mar 2025 18:39:20 +0000 https://www.behereandnow.com/?p=11120 Are you exhausted from hearing conflicting advice about healing and relationships? On one side, experts insist, "You need years of healing before you're ready for love," while on the other side, coaches claim, "You don't need healing at all—just follow this three-step formula!"Both can't be right… and yet, what if they're both only partially correct?If […]

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]]> https://www.behereandnow.com/healing-in-relationships-why-you-dont-need-to-wait-to-find-love/feed/ 0 11120 How to Make Him Commit: A Bold Strategy for Dealing with Avoidant Attachment in Relationships https://www.behereandnow.com/commitment-in-relationships-dealing-with-avoidant-attachment/ https://www.behereandnow.com/commitment-in-relationships-dealing-with-avoidant-attachment/#respond Tue, 08 Oct 2024 16:49:55 +0000 https://www.behereandnow.com/?p=10579 Are you tired of waiting for him to commit? When you met him, he gave you the impression that he was interested in something serious, but now he tells you something like, "Let's take it slow..." Nothing's worse, and you definitely deserve better - a secure man who's stoked to take it to the next […]

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]]> https://www.behereandnow.com/commitment-in-relationships-dealing-with-avoidant-attachment/feed/ 0 10579 The key to secure love: embracing authenticity in relationships https://www.behereandnow.com/the-key-to-secure-love-embracing-authenticity-in-relationships/ https://www.behereandnow.com/the-key-to-secure-love-embracing-authenticity-in-relationships/#respond Sat, 14 Sep 2024 02:56:56 +0000 https://www.behereandnow.com/?p=10554 Are you tired of the endless advice to 'just be more feminine' to find love? It's as if the key to a fulfilling relationship is hidden within a softer voice, a gentler touch, or even the sway of a dress. But here's the truth: this narrative isn't just oversimplified; it actually may keep you from […]

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]]> https://www.behereandnow.com/the-key-to-secure-love-embracing-authenticity-in-relationships/feed/ 0 10554 Six Tips for Attracting Men Who Want Real Love https://www.behereandnow.com/six-tips-for-attracting-men-who-want-real-love/ https://www.behereandnow.com/six-tips-for-attracting-men-who-want-real-love/#respond Sun, 22 Oct 2023 19:17:05 +0000 https://www.behereandnow.com/?p=10354 In a world where finding real love can often feel like finding a needle in a haystack, it’s easy to feel lost and exhausted. Are you yearning for a man who understands and appreciates you for who you truly are? Craving a relationship that adds color to your life, a partnership that aims for the […]

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]]> https://www.behereandnow.com/six-tips-for-attracting-men-who-want-real-love/feed/ 0 10354 Navigating the Dating World: Triumphing as a Successful Woman https://www.behereandnow.com/navigating-the-dating-world-as-a-successful-woman/ https://www.behereandnow.com/navigating-the-dating-world-as-a-successful-woman/#respond Wed, 09 Aug 2023 17:07:30 +0000 https://www.behereandnow.com/?p=10331 Listen to the audio version of this article  When a woman possesses beauty, education, and financial stability, it may seem perplexing that she remains single at an advanced age. However, it is crucial to challenge the assumption that being single equates to a problem. Nevertheless, for those who genuinely desire love and a partner, it […]

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]]> https://www.behereandnow.com/navigating-the-dating-world-as-a-successful-woman/feed/ 0 10331 Understanding Avoidant Men: Effective Communication for a Stronger Connection https://www.behereandnow.com/communication-for-stronger-connection-with-men-with-avoidant-attachment-style/ https://www.behereandnow.com/communication-for-stronger-connection-with-men-with-avoidant-attachment-style/#respond Thu, 29 Jun 2023 18:00:25 +0000 https://www.behereandnow.com/?p=10295 Listen to the audio version of this article  Have you ever pondered on the thought process of avoidant men? Imagine if they went to therapy. What would their insights reveal about their behavior?  As a high-achieving woman looking for everlasting love, you probably encountered a frustrating scenario where men grow distant after a few dates. […]

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]]> https://www.behereandnow.com/communication-for-stronger-connection-with-men-with-avoidant-attachment-style/feed/ 0 10295 Limiting Beliefs About Love: “Relationship Should Occur Naturally” Is the Biggest Lie that Keeps You Single and Powerless https://www.behereandnow.com/limiting-beliefs-about-love-relationship-should-occur-naturally-is-the-biggest-lie-that-keeps-you-single-and-powerless/ https://www.behereandnow.com/limiting-beliefs-about-love-relationship-should-occur-naturally-is-the-biggest-lie-that-keeps-you-single-and-powerless/#respond Wed, 31 May 2023 01:49:21 +0000 https://www.behereandnow.com/?p=10203 When it comes to love and relationships, many women hold onto the belief that love should happen naturally. This idea has been perpetuated by societal norms, romantic movies, and the desire for validation and worthiness. However, relying solely on the notion that relationships should unfold effortlessly can leave you feeling disempowered and hinder your chances […]

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]]> https://www.behereandnow.com/limiting-beliefs-about-love-relationship-should-occur-naturally-is-the-biggest-lie-that-keeps-you-single-and-powerless/feed/ 0 10203 Is Saying It “As Is” Really the Best Way to Communicate Your Needs in Relationships https://www.behereandnow.com/is-saying-it-as-is-really-the-best-way-to-communicate-your-needs-in-relationships/ https://www.behereandnow.com/is-saying-it-as-is-really-the-best-way-to-communicate-your-needs-in-relationships/#respond Tue, 04 Apr 2023 19:05:43 +0000 https://www.behereandnow.com/?p=10151 Communication in relationships is one of the biggest challenges for so many women. The communication skills that you need in a relationship aren't related to your verbal skills. Many high achieving women are great writers or orators, but when it comes to communication patterns in romantic relationships, many struggle.  The reason for that is that […]

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]]> https://www.behereandnow.com/is-saying-it-as-is-really-the-best-way-to-communicate-your-needs-in-relationships/feed/ 0 10151 Thinking That Men Are Afraid of High Achieving Women May Be What Keeps You Single https://www.behereandnow.com/are-you-self-sabotaging-in-relationships-thinking-that-men-are-afraid/ https://www.behereandnow.com/are-you-self-sabotaging-in-relationships-thinking-that-men-are-afraid/#comments Mon, 27 Mar 2023 21:54:54 +0000 https://www.behereandnow.com/?p=10121 If you are a high-achieving woman, you may find yourself self-sabotaging in relationships in a variety of ways. Thinking that men are afraid of high achieving women may be what keeps you single and is just one of the ways in which you may self-sabotage your chances of creating secure healthy relationships. You may also […]

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]]> https://www.behereandnow.com/are-you-self-sabotaging-in-relationships-thinking-that-men-are-afraid/feed/ 1 10121 How to Know if Someone Is Right for You for a Long Term Relationship https://www.behereandnow.com/how-to-know-if-someone-is-right-for-you-for-a-long-term-relationship/ https://www.behereandnow.com/how-to-know-if-someone-is-right-for-you-for-a-long-term-relationship/#respond Mon, 27 Feb 2023 19:56:38 +0000 https://www.behereandnow.com/?p=10063 I’m about to tell you how to know if someone is right for you for a long term relationship.  Most women that I work with struggle because they don’t have enough faith in themselves that they can make good choices for long term relationship happiness. But, the problems are much deeper than that.  Listen to […]

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