Is Waiting for Love the Best Way to Create a Secure Relationship

Is Waiting for Love the Best Way to Create Secure Relationship

Feel Like a Muse (even if your guy isn't a poet)

Is waiting for love worth it?

Most women think that they need to wait for love to come to them, and this advice has been keeping us, women feeling disempowered when it comes to relationships. But, I get it. Everyone’s been saying this for millennia, so it’s easy to believe. 

But, let me ask you.  Do you think that women who are successful in relationships, waited for a prince on a flying white horse to come to them?

The answer to this is not really!

Secure Love Creators Don't Buy Into the Notion that Waiting for Love Is Worth It

Let me tell you what secure love creators, confident women do. They don't live it up to a chance if something is so important to them. Love is important to them and they just simply go after what they want. These muses are determined to create love and a relationship that works for them.

What happens if you just follow the advice and wait for love. If you keep waiting and waiting, you may wind up hopeless feeling that there are not enough good men because love doesn’t just happen to you out in the blue.

What are the chances creating something that you want without doing anything about it? Very slim. Some women not only don't make effort, but they also don't change anything about their habits.

Think about it. You already know all the men from your work, and if you are not with one of these three guys, it's most likely true that they are not right for you. If you are like many women in Los Angeles, you sit in the car and drive home straight into your garage from where you go into your home and watch Netflix.

The only way love will find you this way is if God drops a guy down your chimney. I'd say these are some pretty slim chances.

So, at least if you hope that love will happen to you, you need to go out there and meet some people.

You know how you can actually get what you want?

Become Intentional Instead of Waiting for Love

What does it mean to become intentional? You go after it, you communicate to the world, the universe, God, friends, and you make some smart plans that increase your chances.

No need to be a shy village girl type. Those are old patriarchal impositions on women created to control our sexuality and power in my humble opinion. How can you feel more powerful, or in charge of your love destiny?

Feel Your Power As a Secure Love Creator

Imagine how empowered you could feel if you give signals of interest to several guys. You would realize that you have choices and that you don’t have to depend on the sheer luck. No need to give your heart to the first breathing human that kinda fits the bill. That's when you could discern and make conscious choice with whom you want to create secure love and relationship. Doing all this will help you avoid many mistakes when looking for love.

So, What do you think? Do you want to keep waiting and hoping to find love and wind up wondering what’s wrong with you and why are things not happening for you, or do you want to take the matters of your love life in your hands and find a great partner ready to get to know and love you?


I would hope it’s the letter and in that case feel free to follow me for more tips on how to date, communicate, and heal, so you can create secure love. Our planet needs more of that!

If you are tired of waiting and feeling like you are not good enough, I can help you with this.

So let me ask you… do you want to continue arguing all the time without getting anywhere or do you want to build emotional connection with your partner

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Let me know if you agree with me and if you have any questions.

If you need some help in learning how to process your emotions and communicate effectively, so you can enjoy an amazing relationship and powerful bond with your partner, I can help you with this.

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